Thursday, July 9, 2009

Be blessed with a pearl!

Errors like straw on the surface float...
If you are searching for pearls..
Dive below!

True friends is what we make in an entire lifetime and it happens to be the greatest possession and treasure of a person. We could follow some steps (relative absolutely) to make good friends in life. Let us cherish friendship lifelong...

Given below are few steps for you to have a look -

Try to spend more time with people – Make your presence felt and don't always wait for the other person to knock your door. Mixing with people is very important.

Always make an effort to talk about stuff that your other partner likes. Discussing likings and dislikings will enhance the closeness. Invest time is the key word.

Always, whenever you speak, make eye contact with the other person and smile. If you have an unfriendly attitude, people are less probable to be accepting your friendship. Let your look be approachable – for that avoid squinting, frowning or appearing blank.

Start a conversation.

Indulge in a small conversation. Keep the talk light and cheerful. Even if you have to complain about something, make sure it's something with which you both are dissatisfied, and stress on the positive aspects - how an undesirable situation can be avoided in future, or its alternatives.

Be reliable.

Be a good listener.

Be trustworthy. One of the best things about having a friend is that you have someone to talk to - about anything under the sun, also those secrets which you can hide from the rest of the world. You should try to become a good confidante – should have the ability to keep secrets. Build up the confidence that way.

Be there. We all have heard of fair-weather friends. But as the initial few lines stated that true friends are hard to find, that remains the truth. Fair weather friends are the ones who are happy to be around you when everything seem to go well, but they wouldn't really be around you when you actually need them .

Choose your friends wisely. As you make friends with more people, you may find that some are easier to get along with than others – it will be comparative. While you always give people the benefit of the doubt, sometimes you tend to realize that certain friendships are unhealthy, such as if a person is obsessively needy or having a controlling attitude, being constantly critical or introducing dangers or threats in your life.

1 comments:

Anonymous said...

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